Building personal relationships on forums 
				 
				Because of the anonymous nature of the internet 
				people are generally more skeptical when it comes to doing 
				business online.  Owing partly to famous internet scams 
				sensationalized by the media and to bad personal experiences 
				online, people are less likely to trust a party whom they've 
				never met in person.  
				 
				As an online marketer, you face the challenge of building trust 
				and loyalty without the benefit of a physical handshake, a 
				face-to-face meeting, or even a smile. To this end online forums 
				can provide an excellent way to build meaningful relationships 
				with people and attract new customers.   
				 
				By joining a forum in your area of expertise, you gain access to 
				a community that shares your interests as well as a pool of 
				potential customers. There are countless forums dealing with 
				just about any topic imaginable.  The vast majority of forums do 
				not charge you a fee to register or post messages.  Many allow 
				you to include with your posts self-promotional "signatures" 
				that you can use to promote your business and link to your 
				website.  
				 
				A good way to locate a forum relevant to your line of business 
				is to do a keyword search using one of the major search 
				engines.  Why a major search engine?  A Google search for 
				"website marketing forum," for example, will not only return 
				dozens of relevant forums on website marketing, but will also 
				give you an indication of how highly they are regarded by the 
				search engine giant, as gauged by how high they rank for that 
				key phrase.  Forums that rank higher on the search engine result 
				pages (SERPs) are the ones of which you'll want to become a 
				member. 
				 
				Forums allow you to share knowledge and gain reputation as an 
				expert in your field.  Offering concrete advices that are 
				immediately useful to other people is an especially effective 
				marketing technique. Once you've gained credibility in your 
				field, you will be sought after for your professional expertise 
				without your having to promote yourself.  
				 
				Participating in forums is also an excellent way to humanize 
				yourself and your business.  When people deal with you, they'll 
				know that they're dealing with a real person, not a nameless, 
				faceless business entity.  By staking your reputation online, 
				you demonstrate that you are willing to accept some degree of 
				accountability for your actions. 
				 
				If you're a generally honest and agreeable person in the real 
				life, there is no reason to hide behind a company name when 
				conducting business online. The personal qualities that make you 
				likable in the real world will also make you likable in 
				cyberspace.  Indeed, establishing meaningful relationships 
				online is a lot like making friends in the real world. After 
				all, on the other side of the terminal is a real person with 
				real emotions just like you. 
				 
				Another key to meaningful online relationships is to create an 
				atmosphere of openness and transparency.  Although you normally 
				use a nickname to start and respond to posts in public forums, 
				you should use your real name in private correspondences. It is 
				good practice to begin your messages with a salutation, 
				addressing them by their real name whenever possible. A little 
				courtesy can go a long way in building loyalty and trust.   
				 
				Apart from selling your personal qualities, you must have 
				something of value to offer to people-- and at prices that are 
				fair to everyone! On a venue where your personal reputation is 
				not at stake, you can price a widget for any amount you want and 
				hope someone will come along and buy it.  When you do business 
				on forums, however, you must be extra value-conscious when 
				pricing your product or service. If you overprice your widget, 
				you risk receiving flames from other members that could harm 
				your reputation. This is why it's so important to research what 
				other members are charging for a similar widget and to price 
				yours competitively.  Often you'll end up charging lower prices 
				to members of your forum than to other customers with whom you 
				have not developed as close a relationship for the same widget. 
				 
				Building positive relationships is about making people feel 
				important. Just as you want to feel good for having sold your 
				product or service, people want to feel good for having bought 
				it. This is why it is so important to promptly answer their 
				questions and attend to their concerns. Listen to their inputs 
				and incorporate their ideas into your business practices.  This 
				is how you make your customers a part of your team.  It's not a 
				stretch to speak of your customer as a member of your team. When 
				you really think about it, no business can exist without its 
				customers.  Teamwork is not limited to interacting with other 
				members of your company.  It also takes teamwork to build a 
				constructive, mutually beneficial relationship between you and 
				your customers.     
				 
				Oudam Em is the webmaster of 
				
				www.unlimitedtraffic.net, a site that offers a wide range of 
				effective and affordable solutions to
				
				increase website traffic.  Visit his site for more helpful 
				articles on website promotion and online marketing. 
 
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